Haida Gwaii Traditional Circle of Elders
Use your energies to promote better understanding all around. Then that terrible tension which grips the home of every problem drinker will be lessened.
Big Book pg. 115
Both of you will awaken to a new sense of responsibility for others. You, as well as your husband, ought to think of what you can put into life instead of how much you can take out. Inevitably your lives will be fuller for doing so. You will lose the old life to find one much better.
Big Book pg. 120