My
son, when you grow up you should see that you are of some benefit to your
fellowman...Blessings are not obtained through mere desire alone: They are
not obtained without putting yourself time and again in proper mental
condition...It is always good to act correctly and to do good, the old
people used to say. Winnebago At the moment we are trying to put our lives in order. But
this is not an end in itself. Our real purpose is to fit ourselves to be
of maximum service to God and the people about
us. Big Book pg. 77 Outline the program of action, explaining how you made a
self-appraisal, how you straightened out your past and why you are now
endeavoring to be helpful to him. It is important for him to realize that
your attempt to pass this on to him plays a vital part in your own
recovery. Actually, he may be helping you more than you are helping him.
Make it plain he is under no obligation to you, that you hope only that he
will try to help other alcoholics when he escapes his own difficulties.
Suggest how important it is that he place the welfare of other people
ahead of his own. Big Book pg. 94
Creator guide me to be of service to others.
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