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look to the wisdom of the past to assist us in those decisions which
determine the future of ourselves and our children. To follow another
course would be untrue and would bring upon us those troubles which fall
upon a people who are not true to themselves and their
beliefs. Elder of Shongopoui
Hopi Henry Ford once made a wise remark to the effect that experience is
the thing of supreme value in life. That is true only if one is willing to
turn the past to good account. We grow by our willingness to face and
rectify errors and convert them into assets. The alcoholic's past thus
becomes the principal asset of the family and frequently it is almost the
only one! This painful past may be of infinite value to other families still
struggling with their problem. We think each family which has been
relieved owes something to those who have not, and when the occasion
requires, each member of it should be only too willing to bring former
mistakes, no matter how grievous, out of their hiding places. Showing
others who suffer how we were given help is the very thing which makes
life seem so worth while to us now. Cling to the thought that, in God's
hands, the dark past is the key to life and happiness for others. With it
you can avert death and misery for them. Big Book pg. 124 Grandfather remind us to share the wisdom learned from our past.
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